OK so firstly I want to stress that this is not about age. This is about attitude.
I’ve met 40 year old guys and 19 year old men age has nothing to do with it.
That said I pose the following question, Why would you choose a guy over a man? Well in order for you to answer that question we need to define the terms.
Ok I’ll break it down in hypothetical situations and we’ll do a Man Vs Guy response
You really need help during a sporting event, or other event that he’s watching.
A man will go help you, not complain about it because he accepts that he needs to do it.
Now the guy will either tell you to wait till the event is over (even if it can’t wait) or will come and do it but complain so much about missing the event that you’ll wish that you’d just suffered instead of asking.
It’s your birthday
A man will think about you, and what you like and get something, or make it, based upon that.
A guy will not think about what you like, he will not put a whole lot of thought into it.
And one final one, you do something to upset him and make him a bit angry
A Man will either, walk away, talk about why what you did has made him upset, or or just let it go. (I understand that sometimes we loose it, but this should be a rarity in a man as he will have controll)
A guy will lose it, he will say nasty things, and hurt you back more than you hurt him .
Get the picture?
Well if I boil it down, it works out like this, A man is mature and caring enough to put your needs above his own, in essance to actually act in a loving way.
A guy is self centred, he is the most important thing in the relationship it’s all about what you do for him. He will put in the least amount of effort to get what he wants and then either repeat it expecting to get the same results or just stop bothering.
Please any women who are reading this, think about it. Which one do you want?
You see I could talk for hours about what a man should be, and I may write a list sometime. I understand that not everyone is everything that they should be, and that we all have guy moments, we’re not perfect. But choose someone who has far more man in him than guy.
One closing note.
If you are being treated badly, deal with it, you are not the weaker sex. Women have far more strength then most guys will ever understand. Use it.
Peace and love
Ben
go me!